{"id":31082,"date":"2022-09-09T14:45:02","date_gmt":"2022-09-09T12:45:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/relationships-doubt-and-balance\/"},"modified":"2023-11-01T13:29:36","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T12:29:36","slug":"relationships-doubt-and-balance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/en\/relationships-doubt-and-balance\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationships, doubt and balance"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"31082\" class=\"elementor elementor-31082 elementor-30210\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-57d0159 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"57d0159\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0becca6\" data-id=\"0becca6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3094530 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3094530\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-32758bd\" data-id=\"32758bd\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a9b53b elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5a9b53b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-22a99f8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"22a99f8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Relationships, doubt and balance<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8918b05 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8918b05\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This morning, a friend told me about the complexities of his current relationship and the questions brought to light by their situation. This discussion reminded me of many others, recent or not, and the set of questions to ask yourself to make sure you&#8217;re in a situation that suits you. So I wanted to share the set of questions that a friend and I came up with, which we ask each other regularly and which I also ask my other friends and patients when there&#8217;s doubt about the quality of a relationship. These questions are invaluable in helping me to assess whether or not the relationship is really right for both parties, and which areas to explore next in order to help all these beautiful people find the answers within themselves to be happy and in tune with themselves.<\/p>\n<p>It may be pretty basic, but I find that, often, the basic is in fact essential and often forgotten.  <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/14.0.0\/svg\/1f648.svg\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude48\"><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1945f60 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1945f60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-200x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-30213\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0b5ed53 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"0b5ed53\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-12ed61f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"12ed61f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 align=\"justify\"><b><sub>Is this relationship right for me?<\/sub><\/b><\/h2>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<h3>What exactly do I want?<\/h3>\n<p>What do I need?<\/p>\n<p>What am I looking for in a relationship?<\/p>\n<p>What qualities do I like in others? Are they present in my partner?<\/p>\n<p>Is there a need or quality that is vital to me that is not present in this relationship?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h3>Compatibility<\/h3>\n<p>Do we share our visions for the future? Do we want this relationship to evolve in the same direction?<\/p>\n<p>What are our common interests?<\/p>\n<p>Where do we fit in?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h3>Love or illusion?<\/h3>\n<p>Am I really in love with this person or am I in love with the idea of this person?<\/p>\n<p>Is this person right for me, or am I putting myself aside because I really want to be with someone?<\/p>\n<p>Are we two whole people growing together, or are we trying to fill a void?<\/p>\n<p>Do we pull ourselves up (motivation, encouragement, sharing, joy) or do we pull ourselves down (anxiety, sadness, fears)?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h3>Conflict and communication<\/h3>\n<p>What are the sources of tension? Are they internal and personal, or do they manifest other underlying problems in the relationship?<\/p>\n<p>Can we talk about tensions and find strategies to dissolve them?<\/p>\n<p>More generally, is communication good?<\/p>\n<p>Can I express my needs, hear the other person&#8217;s needs, and are they mutually respected? (I&#8217;m not talking here about fulfilling mutual needs, since some can be met by a partner, while others require strategies outside the relationship).<\/p>\n<p>What is the relationship between positive or pleasant interactions and negative or unpleasant ones? (counting at least 4-5 positive\/pleasant interactions for every negative\/unpleasant one is not bad)<\/p>\n<p>In the event of a negative or unpleasant interaction, are we able to get to the heart of the problem, talk about it and find a strategy for resolving it?<\/p>\n<p>Do I feel understood? Do I feel safe?  <i>(Warning: a negative answer to either or both of these questions is a very strong warning signal!)<\/i><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\n<h3>Other<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<p>There are probably other wise questions, friends, blogs, books, etc. that will have other leads that will also be useful to you, bearing in mind that this brief list cannot be exhaustive.&nbsp;<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/14.0.0\/svg\/1f609.svg\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude09\"><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0c9b72f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"0c9b72f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/everton-vila-AsahNlC0VhQ-unsplash-768x512.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium_large size-medium_large wp-image-30220\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/everton-vila-AsahNlC0VhQ-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/everton-vila-AsahNlC0VhQ-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/everton-vila-AsahNlC0VhQ-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/everton-vila-AsahNlC0VhQ-unsplash-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/everton-vila-AsahNlC0VhQ-unsplash-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1ec6b21 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"1ec6b21\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a074ec elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a074ec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I feel that if the answer to each of these questions is clear, positive and the relational balance is good, the relationship is happy and that both partners have probably succeeded in setting up strategies for qualitative functioning \ud83d\ude0a<\/p>\n<p>If the answers aren&#8217;t clear, the first thing to do is to realize this and clarify them. You can do it alone, by reflecting on it, by letting meditation provide the answers, by writing, etc., and\/or accompanied by friends and\/or a competent therapist or healthcare professional.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, if the answers indicate that the relationship is not, or is no longer, suitable, you&#8217;ll need to find the tools to change it, or the courage to leave it, so that you can move forward and blossom, in harmony with yourself.<\/p>\n<p>I wish you all lots of love and hope your relationship(s) bring you happiness \u2764\ufe0f<\/p><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e7cdd0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"6e7cdd0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-99a3ba6 elementor-post-navigation-borders-yes elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-navigation\" data-id=\"99a3ba6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-navigation.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation\" role=\"navigation\" aria-label=\"Post Navigation\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__prev elementor-post-navigation__link\">\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/en\/naturopathy-abroad\/\" rel=\"prev\"><span class=\"post-navigation__arrow-wrapper post-navigation__arrow-prev\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-angle-left\"><\/i><span class=\"elementor-screen-only\">Prev<\/span><\/span><span class=\"elementor-post-navigation__link__prev\"><span class=\"post-navigation__prev--label\">Previous<\/span><span class=\"post-navigation__prev--title\">Naturopathy abroad<\/span><\/span><\/a>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__separator-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__separator\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__next elementor-post-navigation__link\">\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/en\/nvc-changed-my-life\/\" rel=\"next\"><span class=\"elementor-post-navigation__link__next\"><span class=\"post-navigation__next--label\">Next<\/span><span class=\"post-navigation__next--title\">NVC changed my life<\/span><\/span><span class=\"post-navigation__arrow-wrapper post-navigation__arrow-next\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-angle-right\"><\/i><span class=\"elementor-screen-only\">Next<\/span><\/span><\/a>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fc0ccb1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"fc0ccb1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, a friend told me about the complexities of his current relationship and the questions brought to light by their situation. 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