{"id":31096,"date":"2022-09-09T16:15:52","date_gmt":"2022-09-09T14:15:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/nvc-changed-my-life\/"},"modified":"2023-11-01T13:29:36","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T12:29:36","slug":"nvc-changed-my-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/en\/nvc-changed-my-life\/","title":{"rendered":"NVC changed my life"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"31096\" class=\"elementor elementor-31096 elementor-30255\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-57d0159 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"57d0159\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0becca6\" data-id=\"0becca6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3094530 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3094530\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-32758bd\" data-id=\"32758bd\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a9b53b elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5a9b53b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-22a99f8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"22a99f8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">NVC changed my life<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8918b05 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8918b05\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In autumn 2021, I took a course in non-violent communication (NVC) with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pascalgremaud.ch\/\">Pascal Gremaud<\/a> as part of an<a href=\"https:\/\/www.epsn.ch\/\">EPSN<\/a> training program.<\/p>\n<p>I already had a few basics, I knew how to listen to others, how to formulate &#8220;I&#8221; impressions and those little tools you hear 50,000 times when you train in complementary therapies and have a minimum interest in the psychology of human communication. However, I hadn&#8217;t got to the bottom of the principle and since I&#8217;ve understood the feelings and needs behind any conflict, I communicate better, express myself more accurately and hear better what the other person is feeling.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, expressing your feelings in the first person is a good starting point, as this formulation allows you to identify yourself as the subject of the feeling rather than expressing your feelings as a supposedly objective fact. But saying &#8220;I feel you&#8217;re very aggressive&#8221; isn&#8217;t much of an improvement over &#8220;dude, you&#8217;re super aggressive right now&#8221;! It will be all the more relevant to ask ourselves why we perceive aggression coming from the other, what sensations and emotions we feel at that moment, and what of our fundamental needs, inherent to every human being, are not being met. Aggression in itself is often no more than a defense mechanism, tending to indicate an internal effervescence in the other person that he\/she is unable to express in any other way. Thus, it&#8217;s more than likely that both parties are feeling unpleasant emotions at this moment, and would benefit from being able to observe and accurately express what&#8217;s going on inside them.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve chosen to use<a href=\"http:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/\">Apprentie Girafe<\/a> &#8216;s wonderful illustrations for this article, feel free to have a look at their blog, I find it magical! Every time I visit, he warms my heart and I learn something new \u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-45c11f1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"45c11f1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Emotions<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1945f60 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1945f60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/definition-emotion\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"638\" src=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/qu-est-ce-qu-une-emotion-apprentie-girafe.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-30421\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/qu-est-ce-qu-une-emotion-apprentie-girafe.webp 960w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/qu-est-ce-qu-une-emotion-apprentie-girafe-300x239.webp 300w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/qu-est-ce-qu-une-emotion-apprentie-girafe-768x613.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/definition-emotion\/<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0fb6448 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0fb6448\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Contrary to what our upbringing has all too often taught us, our emotions are not futile, useless things that prevent us from functioning properly and should therefore be controlled. Rather, they are physiological reactions, in response to our perception of a stimulus, processed through the filters of our life experience, the beliefs we have built up as a result of these experiences, and the mechanisms our brain has put in place to protect and defend us against life-threatening dangers and unpleasant emotions.<\/p>\n<p>So what we feel is particularly useful, even vital! Do you really think our evolution would have created such complex, energy-consuming mechanisms if they served no purpose? In fact, neuroscience is helping to elucidate how they are set up at the level of brain development &#8211; it&#8217;s an absolutely fascinating subject!<\/p>\n<p>In conclusion, it&#8217;s best to welcome and listen to our emotions. Sometimes this simple conscious action is enough. In other cases, it will help identify the cause so that it can be addressed and treated.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1088da4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1088da4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What lies behind emotions and conflicts?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8d17892 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"8d17892\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/derriere-chaque-conflit-il-y-a-des-besoins-a-satisfaire\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/besoins-derriere-conflits-apprentie-girafe.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-30425\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/besoins-derriere-conflits-apprentie-girafe.webp 1024w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/besoins-derriere-conflits-apprentie-girafe-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/besoins-derriere-conflits-apprentie-girafe-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/besoins-derriere-conflits-apprentie-girafe-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/derriere-chaque-conflit-il-y-a-des-besoins-a-satisfaire\/<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2136a67 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2136a67\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Behind every conflict and every emotion are needs. I&#8217;m talking about the basic needs common to all human beings, such as security, love, sharing, tenderness, spirituality, rest, movement, understanding, cooperation, etc.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, conflicts, like unpleasant emotions (often called negative emotions), indicate needs that are not being met in the current situation. These are opportunities to listen to ourselves, to identify the needs we have, and to put in place strategies that suit us fully in order to fulfill them.<\/p>\n<p>Conversely, pleasant emotions (often referred to as positive) indicate needs that are being met in the current situation. For example, I feel joy writing this post because it helps fulfill my need to share \ud83e\udd70 (&#8230;and a little fatigue given the hour, which indicates a need for rest that I&#8217;ll soon go and fulfill!).<\/p><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f719aba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f719aba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What is a need?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-969f272 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"969f272\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/quest-ce-quun-besoin\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/definition-besoin-apprentie-girafe6.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-30475\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/definition-besoin-apprentie-girafe6.webp 800w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/definition-besoin-apprentie-girafe6-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/definition-besoin-apprentie-girafe6-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/definition-besoin-apprentie-girafe6-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/quest-ce-quun-besoin\/<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c534a0a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c534a0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Needs and strategies<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2777f93 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2777f93\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/comment-differencier-besoin-et-desir\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"465\" height=\"463\" src=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/difference-besoin-desir-apprentie-girafe-6.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-30482\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/difference-besoin-desir-apprentie-girafe-6.webp 465w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/difference-besoin-desir-apprentie-girafe-6-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/etincellesante.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/difference-besoin-desir-apprentie-girafe-6-150x150.webp 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 465px) 100vw, 465px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">https:\/\/apprentie-girafe.com\/comment-differencier-besoin-et-desir\/<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6188638 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6188638\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The notion of needing someone to do something is generally wrong. Basic needs never imply a specific person or a specific action. When this is the case, we&#8217;re no longer dealing with needs, but with strategies for meeting those needs.<\/p>\n<p>For example, I once thought I needed my flatmate to clean and tidy his dishes after his meal. In reality, I needed order and cleanliness, and when he left his dishes lying around, it went against those needs. Similarly, I &#8220;needed&#8221; his help with the garden. In reality, I did need help, but any of my other friends, or even a landscaper, could help me fulfill my need for help at that moment.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly, I&#8217;m a very tactile person, I love to cuddle, I easily take the hands of people I love to show them my support and affection, and I easily make tender gestures like a scratch on the back when I pass behind a friend in the kitchen. All these gestures are strategies that help fulfill my need for love, tenderness, sharing, expression and simply human contact. One or other of these needs may be predominant depending on the moment, and it&#8217;s these strategies that mainly help me fulfill them. These are also the strategies that come to me spontaneously when I perceive these needs in front of me. But they&#8217;re not the only ones. The strategies I&#8217;ve just listed represent just one of the five love languages (physical touch, words of affirmation, gifts, sharing quality time, acts of service), and I&#8217;m still only talking about the need for love (it&#8217;s one of my favorites).<\/p>\n<p>For each of these needs, we have an infinite number of possible strategies, which can be fulfilled alone or with others. We can, for example, give ourselves an inner hug and say positive reinforcement phrases to each other while inviting ourselves to our favorite restaurant (I love this strategy): we will then have used several of the love languages towards ourselves in order to fulfill this need. 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